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Written By: Pat Aman
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Devotion 21

"Taking Care Of Widows"

Today was kind of quiet around here. We did play a game of Rook this morning after breakfast, (now do not say, "you played cards?") Yes, my mama loves to play Rook, and when she wants to play, we play. No betting takes place, just a good old game of Rook. Rook is something like Hearts. Mama has a sharp mind, and she remembers better than I do what cards have been played.

My sister Ruby does not take her Christmas Tree down. It is a big one. She leaves the white lights on and decorates it according to the season. Spring flowers, 4th of July Flags, Fall flowers and so on, you get the idea. Her daughter had a Douglas Fir and Ruby had a Blue Spruce. Her daughter gave her the Douglas and Ruby gave me the Spruce, so this morning Joe and I took one tree down and put another up for her. We laughed at putting a tree up in April.

We try to help Ruby as much as possible when we come to visit. Ruby is a widow, and will be 74 the 28th of May. Mama will be 92 the 26th of December.

Joe always brings his tools and tries to repair anything that needs repairing. As my brother Bill said, he could give Ruby $10,000 a month and it still would not be enough to repay her for giving her life to take care of our mama.

Joe and I feel the same way. We are surprising Ruby tomorrow by putting new plantation blinds in her living room.  Bill bought her a new living room suit when he was here to visit.

We love Ruby and appreciate her so much. Ruby has a big beautiful home on the river. You come down a winding gravel paved road, with cypress trees all along the way and moss hanging in every one of them. Her house is one mile off the main road. It is so quiet down here on the river.

And she is a retired farmers wife. She can get what she needs, but we just like to do things for her. Ruby will tell you quick, "that God is first in her life, then Mama is next."

We did meet my brother, R.A., for supper at the Mexican Restaurant. Then we rode over to Monroe to Lowes, to pick of a couple of items. Other than that, Pat's Adventures were a little slow today.

Jesus gave His life for you and me. Would you be able to give your life for someone you love? Remember to always take care of family, it is required of you. --Pastor Pat Aman

1 Timothy 5 (New International Version) Advice About Widows,

3. Give proper recognition to those widows who are really in need.

4. But if a widow has children or grandchildren, these should learn first of all to put their religion into practice by caring for their own family and so repaying their parents and grandparents, for this is pleasing to God.

5. The widow who is really in need and left all alone puts her hope in God and continues night and day to pray and to ask God for help.

8. If anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.

16. If any woman who is a believer has widows in her family, she should help them and not let the church be burdened with them, so that the church can help those widows who are really in need.

Did you read these scriptures as I did? Everyone always says the Bible instructs the churches to take care of the widows in the community. if you think that's what the scriptures say, maybe you need to read them again, carefully. The scriptures say that if the widows have children or family, they need to be taking care of the widows, so that the church will not be burdened down, and can take care of the widows which are really in need.

As verse 8 says, anyone who does not provide for his relatives is worse than an unbeliever.

Joyfully, In The Master's Service
 Blessings, Prayers and Love,
 Pastor Pat

 

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